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the only choices: INDEPENDENCE or CODEPENDENCE.
It doesn t have to be that way when you have a mature relationship based on
INTERDEPENDENCE.
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If you are a King and Magician who have found each other and can do
INTERDEPENDENCE with solid mature boundaries, you have found perfection in your
team, marriage or partnership. And the same goes for an INTERDEPENDENT Lover
and Warrior.
If you are already a King in a relationship with a Queen, a Warrior with a
Warrior, a Lover with a Lover or a Magician with a Magician, you can spend great
amounts of time in INDEPENDENCE, fuelling up on ideas and emotion that you can t
get from your partner, but alas, that is so hard, so time-consuming, and so often doomed
to failure.
The lesson we all seem to learn sooner or later is to CHOOSE WELL IN THE
FIRST PLACE. In fact, you may need to choose well in the first three seconds.
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Chapter 8 Choose Wisely in the First Three Seconds
Choose wisely in the first place and you can t lose! It is time to dig into knowing
what TYPE of woman to shoot for in life, and what kind of partner to choose in business.
You will see how serendipity happens as if by magic when you have chosen the right
type of woman or partner in the first place!
We hope to save you the trouble of spending years in a relationship only to find
that it can t possibly work out from the get-go. So choose wisely in the first place. IF
you are a King by nature, look for a Magician-woman, like an actress, or someone in
sales, advertising, PR, or innovative performance. If you are a Warrior, look for a
Lover/Poet-woman, like a writer or massage therapist or healer. If you are a Magician,
look for a Queen, like a teacher, accountant, or administrator. And if you are a
Lover/Poet, look for a Warrior-woman, like a police-woman, athlete, or hard-driving
businesswoman.
Find out the quality of their boundary. Are they able to say NO and hear NO
from you without being threatened? Are they trying to control you or do they let you be
yourself? Can they agree to disagree ? I fyou find these out you may then know they
can be INTERDEPENDENT instead of only cold and INDEPENDENT or clingy or
abusive and therefore CODEPENDENT.
How many people do you know who have spent years struggling in a business, or
decades suffering in a marriage? We all know them, and it pains us. Maybe you are
already in this situation.
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There are many many many many books written on the self-help of relationships
and business, but NONE of them address this topic they all seem to talk about how to
fix problems AFTER they arise. What I am proposing you do is to recognize the right
person to pair with and the right ones to AVOID in the first place if you want the easiest,
most perfect time of things for your business or relationship.
Where have you ever heard someone say CHOOSE RIGHT IN THE FIRST
THREE SECONDS? Well, you just heard it from ME. With enough practice, you can
learn to hone your skills of identifying a person s Jungian Temperament down to three
seconds.
It all comes down to those four verbal symbols. Everything that a King represents
you will be able to see, feel, and hear in the first three seconds of meeting them.
Everything that is a Warrior, a Magician, or a Lover will strike you senses and cause an
alarm to go off for the wrong type for you, or sweet music to be played for the right and
perfect complementary temperament for you.
If you attract your opposite Jungian Temperament, you will naturally click, grow
fond of each other, and have both an intellectual and emotional magnetism for each other.
There are two components of communication. Data, and emotional energy! If
you find your opposite, you will both have an endless supply of interesting things to learn
from each other and complementary energy to share with animal attraction!
Who would have ever guessed at these scientific, mathematical, spiritual truths?
Who would have guessed that it may not really matter what you do LATER, what
counseling you get, suffering you do, WORK you put in, presents you buy, gifts you
give, words you say, or things you do, when you are working against your own nature.
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This is a strange and wonderful thing to learn, this complementarity of
temperaments. You see, now that you know quite a bit how they work, they will save
you time, they will save you energy, they will save you effort and money and pain. They
will save you suffering and wondering, and feeling lost.
Sure you can have an average relationship with someone who is not quite your
temperamental opposite, and you can live by trial and error with those who are of your
very same nature. But you will never see as beautiful, enlightening, energizing and
freeing a thing as your best and opposite soulmate, the one who completes you , who
encourages your growth because that very act actually makes them grow too.
When all the simple matchmakers of olde tried to tell us to just be ourselves and
trust the world around us, they were right, spiritually, scientifically, and mathematically.
We effortlessly find the very person who needs us, joins us, and together we become far
more than just the sum of us. We become EVERYTHING all possible human skills
and dreams and ideas and power. The deep meaning in marriage told in metaphor by
religious tenets millennia old that the two will become like one , and far more
powerful than being alone.
In each of us there is a kingdom, a land where there are ideas to be planted and
grown, a territory to defend, celebration and spectacle to be had, stories to be told and
jokes to revel in. And in exploring that kingdom, we are all heroes. It is what we are
called here to do, every day of our lives until we learn the special, unique lessons of our
missing selves those lessons of all the Kings, Warriors, Magicians and Lovers who ever
lived.
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In heeding their call, we have integrated ourselves, growing from immature
temperament into full mature adulthood personality. Along the way, those other people
we encounter will have learned as much the mystery of this Hero s Journey from us as we
do from them.
Good luck with this Holy Grail of Psychology, this special secret, and enjoy.
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