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camera. BORING! How 'bout this one though? see? 3 people are NOT looking in the
camera and they are talking - doesn't that look more CANDID? I like those the most."
You have a choice from here. bail out with a "pleasure meeting you" or wing it for the
rest of it cause by now you are IN. As long as you don't HIT on them in this first minute
or two of talk and you convey confidence, charisma, a good sense of humor, smile, are
well dressed and groomed (shave and trim!!!) and humorously neg hit the beauty of the
group, you are MONEY! BE the man they want. BE fun. BE funny. Let THEM hit on
YOU. BE a cool friend, not a SLIMEY PICK UP ARTIST (moaa hahaha). If by the end
of this minute to two minute opening act, if a girl is interested in your they will respond,
if not ... move on. you are out to get good at this so PRACTICE
This is the PHOTO OPENING: (slow it down, ask COOL and COLLECTED - yes its an
act - I know inside you are screaming but outside you are like fonzie, coooool!) Lean
MORE to humor than being serious. You will need to do this OPENING a good 50 times
before you understand the timing of this and HOW good it is. It seems natural (hey, I just
got these pics developed) and its a wonderful beginning to play off of. Bring I
microcassette recorder with you too to tape your approaches. Imagine having EVERY
one on tape to hear the progress? to notice the differences? that would be AWESOME.
Now, get out there are meet women - approach 12 girls in 1 day. do that for 4 days in a
week. You will have taken the material and turned it into ART. You are a performer -
like a comedian. You have the material there (a great topic to go with) and you have to
work out the kinks LIVE. so go to it.
hiking
Get into day hiking. Invite a lady to join you in your 'weekly' day hike. Tell them to
bring the food and you'll bring the drink. Tell them about the bear you came across.
Hiking is good for keeping shape too and over time you'll feel more energy. You will
keep toned for the ladies. Women are attracted to 'successful' men. Being successful is a
lifestyle. Convey to her that you keep your schedule busy with lots of 'fun' things and not
just with work. Many successful people have a set workout schedule and when you have
a girlfriend, you can include her into your workout schedule. It gives you something to
do together (assuming you are chasing quality women who workout daily). Design and
implement a proper diet and workout schedule. Convey that you care for your body
because this shows you respect yourself.
ATTRACT
convey your personality.
The photo routine
Take pictures of yourself in interesting situations. Active shots. You doing FUN things.
Goofing off at your workout place. You rock climbing. You in mid air while blading.
The 'bear shit' from the bear you bumped into while hiking ... or is that YOUR shit; you
forget now. Have some funny things to say about the pictures as you show them.
By playing THE GAME you will get good at approaching girls so in regular everyday
situations (called Bonus rounds) you will be trained well for them.
OK so you at in the club at 10pm. Its early a bit but the place will fill. If the place is
dead by 11:30pm you will leave for another place you have marked out for the night.
There are 12 scenarios you will play in the evening.
RULE: The game begins right when you enter the place. You should approach the first
scenario within 5 minutes if not within the first minute. "radiating the vibe" by the bar is
not acceptable.
RULE: Don't drink alcohol. 0% tolerance.
The first three scenarios are really only to get you into the groove. They will most likely
be only 7s or 8s. that's OK because you will be using them as PAWNS to surround
yourself when the 10s come around.
Select Target
This is usually easy. You walk around and in your mind see the girl you can see yourself
having sex with. Again the first 3 scenarios or MATCHES are going to be after
TARGETs rated 7 or 8 realistically. In selecting the Target, you are concerned only with
your desire to have her.
If you get good eye contact from her and she smiles FIRST, then you can approach with a
little more up front attitude. You can go in with the "I have an intuition about you"
approach. What intuition? Just read an astrology book at memorize one of the typical
generic passages.
Observe and Select Scenario TYPE
If stuck for time (because the girl is going to soon become occupied - like it you saw a
friend of hers leave her and go to the washroom or maybe she is waiting by the bar for a
drink or because you obtained eye contact while walking by), it is better to go straight
into an OPENER without knowing what the scenario is than not approaching at all.
You have anywhere from 2 seconds to a minute to observe the scenario and decide what
TYPE of scenario the match is. If the Target does not observe your presence then you
have time to observe. If she notices you ... BAM. Proceed to the next phase. There are
five TYPES of scenarios.
Is the target alone? SINGLE SCENARIO
These are simplest but have a danger of turning into another scenario type instantly if her
friend(s) come to her side. All possible scenario types may in fact change in the middle
of them. If so, you must be dynamic enough to alter your approach so you are dealing
with this new TYPE.
A single scenario has no OBSTACLES.
You approach her straight out. There she is. You can either obtain eye contact and go in
after that or not. Eye contact is NOT essential. You can approach her and when she
looks up at you, that is when you look her in the eye and smile. If you see the girl from a
distance and you've assessed the scenario to be a single you can wait there for her to
notice you and IMMEDIATELY go over or you can just go over and get her eye contact
when you get right up to her. BUT: DO NOT get eye contact and not approach and think
you will use that eye contact later to approach her. If you didn't approach her right away
(the 3 second rule) you BLEW it and while its POSSIBLE to still get her, its damage
control from the perfect OPENING. No if you got eye contact in say a crowded room
where you were going one way and her another and the two smiled but the crowd made it
impossible to approach her and the music was too loud to talk or you were too distant
from each other ... well, you can always approach later. Nothing is PERFECT really, but
you want to minimize the time between the girl NOTICING you and your approaching
her. Sure she might have seen you on the dance floor or maybe she saw you come in but
then the very first time you have eye contact with her will be followed by your actual
approach.
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Dobre pomysły nie mają przeszłości, mają tylko przyszłość. Robert Mallet
De minimis - o najmniejszych rzeczach.
Dobroć jest ważniejsza niż mądrość, a uznanie tej prawdy to pierwszy krok do mądrości. Theodore Isaac Rubin
Dobro to tylko to, co szlachetne, zło to tylko to, co haniebne.
Dla człowieka nie tylko świat otaczający jest zagadką; jest on nią sam dla siebie. I z obu tajemnic bardziej dręczącą wydaje się ta druga. Antoni Kępiński (1918-1972)
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